Bob is sexually gay but romantically bisexual, and very much in love with his wife. He discusses how he and his wife focus their relationship on abundance instead of scarcity and generosity instead of fear.
I had the privilege of interviewing Kay during the Queer Studies Conference at Ohio University. They are panromantic and genderfluid with a non-binary gender expression. They also follow the philosophy of relationship anarchy. In this audio interview, we discussed their sexuality, gender, relationships, and life.